Story about Couples

A man and his fiance were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." She offered.

"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.

"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your list."

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

IN LIFE, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them.

We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise.

Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying things when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST when we see and praise the good and try our best to forego the mistakes of our spouse. Nobody's perfect but we can find perfection in them to change the way we see them. It is necessary to understand the difficulties and be a helping hand to each other....THAT BRIGHTENS THE RELATIONSHIP. — 

“نحن لا نحب حين نختار… ولا نختار حين نحب… إننا مع القضاء والقدر حين نولد، وحين نحب، وحين نموت” 

لــ عباس العقاد

ما خلقَ الله لذّةً أهنأ للنّفسِ من لذّة الاحلام , فكأنّما ترى فيها النّفس شيئاً من تحقيق


 المستحيل , وَ إنّ في أعقابِ هذه اللذّة بعدَ اليقظةِ ما يشعرُ المرء بالأماني كيف جاءتْ 


وَ كيفَ ذهبت . فتكونُ ذكرى الحلم أروحَ على النّفس من الحلمِ نفسِه لأنّها نتاجُ ما بينَ 


لذّةٍ لمْ تكن شيئاً وَ لذّةٍ صارتْ شيئاً ! 




مصطفى صادق الرافعى

نموت مصادفةً ..

ككلاب الطريق .

ونجهل أسماء من يصنعون القرار .

نموت ...

ولسنا نناقش كيف نموت ؟

وأين نموت ؟

فيوماً نموت بسيف اليمين .

ويوماً نموت بسيف اليسار ..

نموت من القهر

حرباً وسلماً ..

ولا نتذكر أوجه من قتلونا

ولا نتذكر أسماء من شيعونا

فلا فرق – في لحظة الموت –

بين المجوس ..

وبين التتار ...

بلادٌ ..

تجيد كتابة شعر المراثي

وتمتد بين البكاء .. وبين البكاء

بلادٌ ..

جميع مدائنها كربلاء ...

لـِ نزار قباني

Trust those who can feel your sadness in 


your smile, hear your words in your 


silence, and feel your love in your anger, 


because they are indeed your true 


friends.. :)

"In Washington DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, a man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about four minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule. About four minutes later, the violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk. At six minutes, a young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again. At ten minutes, a three-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly. At forty-five minutes: The musician played continuously. Only six people stopped and listened for a short while. About twenty gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32. After one hour: He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all. No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music. This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people’s priorities. This experiment raised several questions: In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? If so, do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context? One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made… How many other things are we missing as we rush through life

قال جعفر بن محمد ( جعفر الصادق ) :

إن لأمير المؤمنين عليِّ كرم الله وجهه تسع كلمات : ثلاث منها في المناجاة ، وثلاث 

منها في الحكمة ، وثلاث منها في الأدب .

فأما اللواتي في المناجاة فقوله :

· إلهي ، كفاني فخرًا أن تكون لي ربَّا . وكفاني عِزَّا أن أكون لك عبدًا . أنت لي كما 

أحب ، فاجعلْني لك كما تحب .

وأمّا اللواتي في الحكمة فقوله :

· امْنُنْ على مَن شئتَ تكُنْ أميرَه ، واحتجْ إلى مَن شِئتَ تكن أسيرَه ، واستغنِ عمَّن 

شِئتَ تكن نظيره .

وأما اللواتي في الأدب فقوله :

· قيمة كل امرىء ما يُحْسِنُه ، والمرء مخبوءٌ تحت لسانه ، والناس أعداء ما جهِلوا .